things that are nOt okay:
- going through your children’s things (phone, journals, backpack)
- talking badly aBout your kid to other people
- insulting your kid both to their face and behind their back
- “this is my house you have no privacy”
- hitting your kid
- compare them to other kids
• telling your kid you’re doing them a favor by providing the essentials (food, clothing, education, etc)