gaygothur:

This is gonna sound super mean but… men who are interested in women need to know, in all their interactions with women, that they are like mosquitos in the summer. They’re like gnats outside a pool. You’re probably the 10th dude to message her on tinder recently. She’s not thinking of you. You’re definitely not the only person hitting on her at yhid party. You’re not the only dude that hit on her on the street today. You’re not the only dude talking to a sex worker trying to convince her to fuck you for free. You’re not special. You’re just one more obnoxious gnat from the swarm and there are too many of you to swat.